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No-one's perfect, but that's no excuse to be unreasonably jealous. Us girls are out here tryna shake the 'psycho girlfriend' tag, so help the team and reign in your jealous behaviour a little. If you do these 6 things, then you are a jealous girlfriend. And no, not the kind of jealous where it's justified or shows you care, the kind where 'stalker' pops to mind. 


1. You FB Stalk Every Girl He's Dated

...and you stalk them on a regular basis. If you know she went to Paris this weekend, then you've gone way too far. A inquisitive look on your significant other's ex girlfriend's page is normal, not healthy, but normal- to check it daily, and find out even detail about her isn't. There's a reason she's in the past, and that they're not together anymore, so give yourself more credit. 

2. You Check When He's Online

WhatsApp and FB messenger are your BFFs because they tell you when he was last active, and therefore if he's ignoring you. Ok, he shouldn't be avoiding your convos but maybe it's for innocent reasons. Or maybe it's because you're an OTT jealous GF who won't let him live. 

3. You Lie To Make Him Jealous

So in reality the only guy who hit on you today was the homeless dude who hangs around your neighbourhood, but the version you tell him, it may as well have been Brad Pitt's younger, better looking, brother. Or you lie and say your ex has hit you up. He should already know how lucky he is, jealousy isn't the right way to bring that out of him. Would it make you feel lucky if his ex wanted him back? Or would it make you feel insecure and angry? Yeah, thought so. 

4. You Read Into Everything He Does

A friend of mine legitimately uses the 'Find Your Friends' app to stalk her boyfriend's whereabouts. She plans how long his journey home takes to make sure he isn't lying about where he's been. Seriously, not normal or ok. Your other half has a life, and you need to let them live. Imagine how annoying and controlling it would be if someone asked you 100 questions every time you went to the shops.

5. You've Created Fake Profiles 

Please, please, please don't do this. If you don't trust them to this extent then the relationship is never going to work, and you need to call it quits. And work on yourself. Seriously. 

6. You Snoop 

Looked through his phone multiple times? Even rummaged through his trash? Get excited when you get the opportunity to do these things? Then take a long hard look at yourself, because you need a reality check. This is invasion of privacy. This is you ruining the trust, not him.

The green-eyed monster is not a cute look, yes we're all guilty of occasionally getting carried away but if these 6 points are familiar to you, and frequent, then you're an out of control jealous girlfriend. Check yo'self before you wreck yo'self babe. 

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Dear all annoying Facebook couples, 


You may not realise that you're doing it, but hopefully after this article you'll get some home truths. Because you guys are literally the worst. For the love of god no-one cares that it's your two month anniversary, or what you have for dinner every night, or that you really really love each other. We get it. It doesn't make anyone go "awww" more like "why are the so insecure they have to post it everywhere on social medial". Ok, we care if you get engaged, or buy a puppy or have a child, but that's it. And when those events happen, we only need one status and one picture. Okuuur? 

So please, please, stop doing the following things and ruining Facebook for the rest of us:

1) Oversharing. 

You know there's this magical thing called a text message. Did you know that you don't need to tell all your FB friends that you "had the best night ever with my boo". It actually means more if you just tell the person it's aimed at. 

2) Kissing Selfies. 

Please make them stop!! I don't want to see a close up shot of your tongues in each other's mouths. One, on say, your wedding day is acceptable. But a whole album worth from random nights at home isn't. 

3) The On-Off Relationship Updates.

We're not 13 and in school, updating your status to "single" or "complicated" every time you and your beau have a domestic is really unnecessary. Every couple argues, you don't have to tell the whole world about it. 

4) Pet-Names. 

Pet-names should be reserved for the privacy of your own home. Referring to your other half as "my pumpkin", "bae", "angel face", "honey bunny" etc on Facebook is truly vomit inducing. MY EYES. MAKE IT STOP. 

5) Commenting On Everything The Other Does. 

We all know you guys are probably sat next to each other. This isn't benefitting your partner, it's merely you trying to rub it in all your single friend's faces that you're loved up. No-one cares. Seriously. 

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The first time you see your ex after a break-up is always a big moment. You want them to weep at how good you look. And Bella just acted this dream out IRL, looking as good as humanely possible. 


Seriously, just imagine how good you'd feel. After 10 hours of hair and makeup, oiled up and toned to perfection, in one of the best pieces of lingerie there is. And Abel's reaction is every guy who's ever seen their ex looking fire and regretting their decision. TOO MANY FEELINGS.

Can they just get back together already, please. 

See twitter's best reactions above to her walking past The Weeknd at the VS show...

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32-year-old pop singer Katy Perry and 39-year-old actor Orlando Bloom have called it quits, according to sources close to the couple. After dating for about a year, the pair have decided to go separate ways. 


It seems amicable so far, with neither party admitting who had initiated the breakup. Different sources had different stories to tell though: one friend confided to InTouch Weekly that "Not long after Halloween, Orlando confessed to pals that he'd decided to end their relationship. He claimed that he's just not ready to get married and have babies." However, he was previously married to Miranda Kerr, and has a 5-year-old with her. However, another friend has also come forward with a different explanation: "She said they were on different life paths and as much as she likes him, it's time to move on." 

It seems like while the two were not on the same page romantically, they were on the same page with what was wrong with their relationship. If they both wanted different things, it seems like a mutual breakup - or at least as mutual as a breakup can be. Katy will be relieved to ditch the traffic and not commute to Orlando's house any longer. "My boyfriend lives in Malibu and getting used to that [drive] was, like, 'Are you kidding me? What kind of life is this? There's no pop-over and I never really got used to Malibu 'cause it's halfway to Santa Barbara, so I'm always just going to Santa Barbara then. I get the whole coming to L.A. and living by the beach thing. But it's really … it's so far, nobody is going to come see you." Orlando reportedly missed Katy's 32nd birthday, since he was on set in China filming his new movie. 

A source claimed that "Orlando buried Katy in flowers on her birthday and felt horrible he could not be there for her birthday." Well, you can't blame Katy for cooling on somebody who didn't even see her on her birthday! Besides that, Orlando has been publicly being a creep. 

Although he and Katy were not technically official yet in October '15, they had attended a Met Gala after-party together the week before he was openly flirted with several other women, including very young women. "I don't know Kendall Jenner, but if anyone has her number I would love it," he told the crowd while accepting an award for his UNICEF work, about 19-year-old Kendall. Orlando was 38. 

Besides prowling for Kendall, he was also spotted drunkenly cuddling with 23-year-old Selena Gomez in a club. Hmmm ... it looks like Katy may have dodged a bullet on this one!

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Ruby Rose has just starred in, directed and written a new music video for The Veronicas, called 'On Your Side'. And it's steamy AF because she's dating Jessica Origliasso (one half of the band). 


The video is pretty amazing- a little dark, hella sexy and it's great to see a gay couple get it on in a vid. The couple have had a dreamy love story, first dating in 2008 and having a on-off relationship until Ruby made it big. 

Jess has told Australian radio station, Nova, that "It's me. Me and Ruby Rose. And it is our love story in this video. We've been friends for eight years. We just reconnected over doing this video. We sort of just fell in love. It's pretty cute, honestly. We support each other in our careers and we support one and another and be there. It made sense to be able to come out on that level because we want to be there in each other's lives on a public level". 

Watch the video above...

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Kourtney Kardashian and her baby daddy/on-off partner of 9 years have been captured by Paparazzi on what appears to be a romantic vacation in Los Cabos, Mexico. But does this mean the couple is back together?!

Scroll through our gallery above to see Scott and Kourtney deboard their private jet in Mexico, a saucy Instagram picture of Kourtney in her bikini which Scott shared on Instagram, and paparazzi images of the two intimately sharing each other's space!

The couple share three children; Mason, six, Penelope, four, and Reign, one. Kourtney and Scott have remained amicable and share parenting responsibilities, despite Scott's tendency to jet off for weeks on end and history of alcohol and substance abuse.

In a recent episode of Keeping Up with the Kardashians, Kourtney and Scott's relationship was put under the microscope once more when Khloe Kardashian commented, "You know they're totally getting back together one day." 

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Ever notice raised eyebrows amongst friends and/or colleagues every time you speak or when they think you've got your back turned? Perhaps it's time to find out whether you may be the "bitchy" one. 

Here are 7 signs that people may secretly hate you...

1) You're fussy as hell when it comes to group outings. It's either too hot or too cold at wherever y'all are hanging out, you detest pretty much everything on the menu each time someone else picks out a restaurant, and you make a huge scenes whenever a stranger accidentally bumps into you at the bar. 

2) People have stopped introducing you to their dates/significant others because you're judgemental AF or flirt with everything and anything that moves.

3) In your Squad's group chat, you don't even bother skim reading everyone else's messages before launching into a huge rant about how you just had the WORST day ever. People start writing less and less, with you now suspecting whether they've created a new group chat to which you haven't been added. 

4) Your so-called friends have stopped liking or commenting on any of your new selfies.

5) You refuse to remove group pictures on social media where you look amazing, even if a tearful friend has begged to hide it because, wasted.

6) You think white lies are a waste of time and prefer to straight out tell someone when they look like crap. You figure it's then up to them to sort themselves out so that they look respectable next to you in public.

7) The rule is, whoever says they like a guy first gets dibs. You don't care for this rule.

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Mila Kunis, a powerhouse of talent and intelligence, has written an open letter, published on A Plus responding to the sexism she's faced in her industry, and how she's taking a stand. 

She is "done compromising; even more so, I'm done with being compromised", and so are we.

Read the open letter below...

" 'You'll never work in this town again.' A cliché to be sure, but also what a producer threatened when I refused to pose semi-naked on the cover of a men's magazine to promote our film. I was no longer willing to subject myself to a naïve compromise that I had previously been willing to. "I will never work in this town again?" I was livid, I felt objectified, and for the first time in my career I said "no." And guess what? The world didn't end. The film made a lot of money and I did work in this town again, and again, and again. What this producer may never realize is that he spoke aloud the exact fear every woman feels when confronted with gender bias in the workplace. 

It's what we are conditioned to believe — that if we speak up, our livelihoods will be threatened; that standing our ground will lead to our demise. We don't want to be kicked out of the sandbox for being a "bitch." So we compromise our integrity for the sake of maintaining the status quo and hope that change is coming. 

But change is not coming fast enough to help my friends, my peers, or even our children. In fact, a recent study by the American Association of University Women shows that the pay gap is closing at such a slow rate that it will be 136 years before women are paid equally to men. 136 years. And the pay gap is but one clear quantification of the acute undervaluing of the contributions of women in the workplace. 

Throughout my career, there have been moments when I have been insulted, sidelined, paid less, creatively ignored, and otherwise diminished based on my gender. And always, I tried to give people the benefit of the doubt; maybe they knew more, maybe they had more experience, maybe there was something I was missing. I taught myself that to succeed as a woman in this industry I had to play by the rules of the boy's club. But the older I got and the longer I worked in this industry, the more I realized that it's bullshit! And, worse, that I was complicit in allowing it to happen. 

So, I started my own club. I formed a production company with three amazing women. We have been hustling to develop quality television shows with unique voices and perspectives. Since our inception, we have been lucky enough to partner with incredible producers, male and female, who have treated us as true equals and partners. Recently, we signed on to partner with an influential male producer on a project that would shine a light on an important social issue — ironically — inclusivity and our shared human experience. 

In the process of pitching this show to a major network, the typical follow-up emails were sent to executives at this network. In this email chain, this producer chose to email the following: 
 
"And Mila is a mega star. One of biggest actors in Hollywood and soon to be Ashton's wife and baby momma!!!" 

This is the entirety of his email. Factual inaccuracies aside, he reduced my value to nothing more than my relationship to a successful man and my ability to bear children. It ignored my (and my team's) significant creative and logistical contributions. 

We withdrew our involvement in the project. 

 Yes, it is only one small comment. But it's these very comments that women deal with day inand day out in offices, on calls, and in emails — microaggressions that devalue the contributions and worth of hard-working women. 

Subtle gender bias is oftentimes nearly imperceptible, and even wholly undetectable to those who share the bias. It became clear in later emails from this producer that he was totally unaware of why his words were so appalling. What he characterized as a "lighthearted" comment was actually deeply undermining to my contributions and ability to be taken seriously as a creative partner. 

I have no interest in vilifying this man. Blind gender biases are embedded in every facet of our life. They are reinforced by our educational institutions: men dominate the figures we study in history, the luminaries of math and science and technology about whom we learn, and the authors of political discourse we are taught to revere. We are inundated with tales of male superiority that blind us to the architecture of our own relationships. The very word "blind" informs us of everything. No one gets upset when a blind person bumps into a wall, but the wall does not cease to yield force. 

I'm done compromising; even more so, I'm done with being compromised. So from this point forward, when I am confronted with one of these comments, subtle or overt, I will address them head on; I will stop in the moment and do my best to educate. I cannot guarantee that my objections will be taken to heart, but at least now I am part of creating an environment where there is the opportunity for growth. And if my comments fall on deaf ears, I will choose to walk away. 

If this is happening to me, it is happening more aggressively to women everywhere. I am fortunate that I have reached a place that I can stop compromising and stand my ground, without fearing how I will put food on my table. I am also fortunate that I have the platform to talk about this experience in the hope of bringing one more voice to the conversation so that women in the workplace feel a little less alone and more able to push back for themselves. 

I will work in this town again, but I will not work with you."

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Real life and on-screen teenage sweethearts Vanessa Hudgens and Zac Efron met on the set of High School Musical and dated for five years. 

Not much has been said by either party regarded why their relationship broke down but a really big hint has been dropped from Vanessa's end...

Speaking to The New York Times, Vanessa said, "I went through a phase when I was really mean because I was so fed up. Girls were running after him, and I was giving them death stares. Then I realised that's not what that's about."

The 27-year-old actress then explained she had to end the relationship because it was bring out the worst in her. Relatable AF, right? 

Zac and his girlfriend of two years, Sami Miro, recently ended their relationship. Vanessa and boyfriend Austin Green are still going strong.

Long live Troy and Gabriella! 

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Is he 'the one'? What even is 'the one'? Is the idea of having a perfect match, one 'love of your life', 'Mr Right' a little outdated? Well, yes, the Disney version is. Hate to break it to you but you're unlikey to find your soul mate the first time round. You'll kiss (bang) a few frogs, settle for a couple of safe bets and get your heart broken by a love rat, but there is still hope. 


Think of 'the one' as being 'the right one' rather than 'the perfect one'. Because there's no such thing as perfect. You're not a Disney Princess- that sounds harsh, but you ain't. Can you talk to animals, swing down buildings by your hair or heal broken legs with your magic locks? Nah, you can't. And if you could you'd hopefully be a superhero not some princess searching for their prince. So, since you're not a Disney Princess, you're not going to find your Prince Charming. 

The one, in reality, is your best friend who you'd happily spend the rest of your life with- there will be fights, tears and heartbreak, but if they're the one you'll both love and support each other through it all. 

1. You Make Sacrifices For Each Other 

You make sacrifices for one another, and your life together, but never try and change each other. 

2. You Feel Comfortable Planning

The thought of planning a holiday with your last fella filled you with dread, but with this one you're happy to make plans months, christ even years, into the future. 

3. You Share Similar Values 

No, this doesn't mean you have to agree on everything. After all, opposites do attract, but only in regards to personality quirks and passions, not core values. If you don't agree on kids/marriage/politics and other big lifestyle factors, then you won't work out. It's all well and good loving one another, but if one of you sees kids as a deal breaker and the other doesn't then maybe it's time to face the music. 

4. Love Is The Easy Party 

He's the one when you realise that being in love is the easy part, and the rest of having a relationship is the hard part. It's the daily squabbles about washing up, bills and who last cleaned the bathroom that take work, if he's the one then the loving and supporting one another is the easy part, and life is the hard bit. 

5. He's Your Bestie 

You tell him everything, you don't keep secrets, you're not embarrassed to express your feelings and he's the first person you want to tell about your day. Grab onto that kind of love, it'll last a lot longer than the dude with really good abs who doesn't care about that amazing sandwich you ate for lunch. 

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Ciara, R&B singer, and her husband Russell Wilson aka NFL star, are expecting their first child together. The star wrote on Instagram "On this special birthday I received an abundance of love from friends and family...and I'm excited to finally share one of the greatest gifts of all that god could give".


Wilson then posted his own Instagram, captioning it "The greatest blessing of all. Forever grateful". 

Ciara has two children, from her former relationship with Future, the rapper, and Russell has one child from a previous relationship. 

The pair were renowned for taking a celibacy vow before their wedding, and they've certainly made the most of being married with this news! 

She's spoken about married life to E! previously, stating "married life is the best life, it's definitely life-changing, and you do feel a difference between the stages of being boyfriend and girlfriend to be engaged to actually being married. You feel the definition of what 'being one' is, and it's really cool. Nothing compares to what this feels like".

Many congrats to Ciara and Russell, that is going to be one beautiful baby...

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Double dates went out of fashion for a while, but they're back in favour with millennials after dating apps made them cool again- like the app Double, as seen on Dragon's Den, and Tinder's new 'social' feature. We debate in a final showdown, are double dates lame or a fun way to date? 

For 

1) They can diffuse awkwardness. If you're dating someone your friends know or have set you up with, this provides a common ground which can make the first or second date a little less stressful. 

2) If you're in a longterm relationship and so is your BFF, a great way to get your SO's to bond is a double date. You and your girl can gossip, forcing them to make conversation, and before you know it you're the 4 best friend's anyone could have. 

3) New friends. It's always great to meet new people and expand your social circle, so going on double dates with people you don't know that well could open up new possibilities. 

4) This is a pro for you and your BFF, not so much your SO. Double dates are a brilliant way to interrogate your pal's new man, without it being intimidating/super obvious.

Against 

1) Comparisons. Your date turns up late, in old jeans, and a little drunk. Your friend's date arrives in a suit, with flowers and chocolates. Smug pr*cks. 

2) One couple is always waaaaay more PDA than the other. You and your beau just want to eat your spaghetti in peace, not watch a live porno happen across the table.

3) If you or the other couple have an argument, things get a million times more tense. What's protocol if one couple break up? Do you carry on eating the meal? Do you pretend it didn't happen? So many questions, so many potentially awkward situations. We'll pass thanks. 

4) Flirting, with the wrong person. If it's a first double date switches may happen, and that's just plain weird. 

5) You can roll your eyes at your beau, but when your mate's beau is being annoying that's not quite as acceptable. Basically, double dates nine times out of ten are horrible. And a bad idea. 

If you're in a long term relationship and you're already great friends with another couple then it's a lovely thing, but more of a catch up then a double date. First date double dates are never as fun as they sound, trust me. 

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