Eyeing that cutie across the bar, but too shy to go up to him? Had a crush on someone forever, but don't know how to get past being just friends? As per usual, we have just the solutions for you! Use these tips and tricks to make the first move with the man of your dreams, and stop waiting around for him to come to you.
1) Keep it simple:
The first move doesn't need to be a big Bollywood-esque affair. You can skip the frills and fancies instead, and simply flash your smile and ask them whether or not they would like to go out with you sometime.
2) Be specific:
It's easy to ask someone out on an ambiguous drinks or dinner date, and spark the never-ending debate about where to go and what to do. Instead, switch it up a little and ask them on a unique date, scheduled for a particular day and time. For example, ask them to go watch that play with you next Friday at 8.30.
3) Be confident:
We all love a woman who can take charge, and asking someone out in particular demands confidence. Nervousness is palpable, and often not cute. So stand up straighter, make eye contact as you speak, smile, and believe in yourself. Try it!
4) Don't assume success or failure:
If you enter this situation with certain expectations in mind, you might find yourself disappointed. So don't be the girl who puts herself down with "he's never going to say yes to me," or the girl who assumed "he has no reason to say no." A neutral approach of "he might say no, but he might just say yes" will keep your presumptions in check.
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